Family
How to make a family emergency plan
A step-by-step way to agree what your household will do in an emergency, from meeting places and contacts to who collects whom. Takes about an hour.
In an emergency, people do not always think clearly, and phones may not work. A family emergency plan means everyone already knows what to do, where to go and who to contact. It takes about an hour to make and can save a lot of worry.
You do not need special forms. A sheet of paper per person works well. Keep it simple enough that a child could follow it.
Step 1: think about your risks
Think about what is most likely where you live. The UK government’s Be Ready site lists common hazards, such as:
- flooding
- storms
- cold weather, snow and ice
- heatwaves
- power cuts
- water supply interruptions
- fires in the home
Check your flood risk on GOV.UK. If you live near a river or the coast, flooding should be central to your plan.
Step 2: agree how you will stay in touch
- Write down key numbers on paper for each person: family members, a trusted neighbour, school, work, your GP and your insurer.
- Choose an out-of-area contact: a friend or relative who lives elsewhere. If local phone lines are busy, it can be easier to reach someone further away, and everyone can check in with them.
- Agree to text rather than call if networks are busy. Texts often get through when calls do not.
- Make sure everyone’s phone can receive emergency alerts.
Step 3: choose meeting places
Agree two places:
- Near home: somewhere just outside, such as a neighbour’s front gate or the end of the road, in case you have to leave quickly (for example, a fire).
- Further away: somewhere in your area, such as a relative’s house, a library or a place of worship, in case you cannot get home or your area is cut off.
Make sure everyone knows how to get to both.
Step 4: decide who does what
Agree who is responsible for:
- collecting children from school or nursery, and a backup if that person cannot get there
- checking on older relatives or neighbours who need help
- taking the grab bag and pets
- turning off gas, electricity and water if advised
Check your children’s school or nursery emergency arrangements and make sure they have up-to-date contact details and a list of who may collect your children.
Step 5: plan for people who need extra help
Think about anyone who:
- has a disability or a long-term health condition
- relies on medicines or medical equipment
- does not speak English well
- has young children or is pregnant
Write down their needs, their medicines and who supports them. Consider joining the Priority Services Register if they are eligible.
Step 6: plan for pets
Decide where pets could go if you had to leave, since many emergency shelters cannot take them. Keep a carrier, lead and a few days’ food ready.
Step 7: plan your home
Make sure the adults in your household know:
- where the gas meter, electricity fuse box and water stopcock are
- how to turn them off, and when it is safe to do so
- where your grab bag, torches and first aid kit are kept
Step 8: write it down and share it
Put the plan on a single page. Include:
- names and dates of birth of everyone in the household
- key phone numbers, including an out-of-area contact
- your two meeting places
- who collects whom
- medical needs and medicines
- pet arrangements
- where the stopcock, fuse box and gas meter are
- where your grab bag and important documents are kept
Give everyone a copy. Keep one in your grab bag, one by the phone or on the fridge, and one with a trusted person outside your home.
Step 9: practise
A plan you have never tried is easy to forget. Every so often:
- walk to your meeting places with children
- check everyone can find the torch and grab bag in the dark
- test that everyone knows how to reach the out-of-area contact
Step 10: keep it up to date
Review your plan every 6 months, or when something changes: a new home, school, job, baby or pet. Our Home Preparedness Score is a quick way to check how ready your household is.
Talking to children about it
Keep it calm and practical. Explain that emergencies are rare, that the plan is like a fire drill, and that it means everyone will know what to do. Give children a simple job, such as checking the torch or packing their comfort toy, so they feel involved.
Sources and further reading
- Be ready for emergencies (UK Government)
- Be informed about hazards (UK Government)
- Check for flooding (GOV.UK)
- About Emergency Alerts (GOV.UK)
Tools for this guide
Home Preparedness Score
Answer 30 quick questions across 10 areas to get a score out of 100, your strengths, your biggest gaps and one next step for each.
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